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all i do is work clean though I was a good wife turns out he is seeing a coworker found there text messages hugging at work he is sneak out after I go to work to go see her how do I expose and confront them what would you do she knew he was married and he is no better

Protect yourself

Yep. Beem there, done that. Get a lawyer to protect yourself so you will have the ability to start over without him if that's what you choose.  
 
Protect yourself physically as well. If he's unfaithful, there's the possibility he's picked up a STD and paased it to you. See your doctor to make sure you don't need testing etc.  
 
I'm sorry you're experiencing this. People who cheat are extremely selfish (both the cheater and their partner). It takes a lot of move on, but move on you will.

Cheaters should be kicked to the curb, as they will not stop, regardless of what they tell you or promise you, they will do it again and again. The hurt will never stop for you.

I have also been there and it was incredibly painful.  
 
Definitely get a lawyer. My biggest regret when I found out was that I hadn’t gathered enough information and I so wanted to believe he wasn’t cheating, that I let him convince me that the evidence I did have, was a figment of my imagination. It wasn’t and he was was emotionally brutal through the whole process until I finally had enough and kicked him out.  
 
I found the website. Www.survivinginfidelity.com a huge help. Check it out.

I’ve too gone through the same thing and have advice IF you’re leaving him:  
Only lawyer up if you’re leaving him for good and want a divorce lawyer. The lawyer won’t care if he’s cheating and have evidence, as it’s not against the law to cheat on your spouse. If you’re going to leave, do so when he’s not home and take what you want from the house so you won’t be fighting over trying to obtain it through your lawyer. Do your research on a lawyer too. Mine was the worst, he didn’t care and overcharged me for the smallest things I never asked for. Pm me if you want to know who not to go to. Find one who will go to bat for you.  
 
Yes, protect yourself and get tested ASAP. If he’s willing to cheat on you he doesn’t care what he brings home to you because you haven’t factored into his priorities for a while.  
 
Take care of yourself and live your best life. Don’t contact him in a moment of weakness. The best revenge is living well. Best of luck