| | Emracoad said "| | Jellybean said "It's funny to here older folks when they still use now politically incorrect terms and think they are not saying anything wrong at all, as they just use them so innocently.
Not funny when people use them that know better and use them in a derogatory sense, but I know so many older people who just simply use terms in well meaning ways because they know no different, and don't see the big deal as they were acceptable terms in their day.
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Yeah. I had an uncle with down's syndrome and my dad always referred to him as retarded. It always made me cringe but I knew he never meant anything derogatory by it. It was a word he had grown up with and heard from his parents, doctors, etc. When he was a kid it was not considered anything but a medical term (not to his family anyway). " |
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I'm really not even sure how some of these words from the past ended up become politically incorrect to use. The word retarded in itself is not a bad word. It only became bad because of the derogatory sense people were using it in. Really, what is the difference between saying that someone is mentally retarded or saying they are developmentally delayed. I'm sure if kids went around using the word "delayed" in a derogatory tone, then it would become politically incorrect to use that term as well. It's funny how some words have become "bad" only because of the tone they ended up being used in.
Having a child that is on the autism spectrum, I've learned that teachers or school staff wont even use the term "special needs" anymore, as it is not correct. They now say that the child has "extra support needs." Soon enough that will offend someone, and the terminology will have to change again.
Edited by Jellybean, 2016-01-29 14:32:27