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My fiance and I would like to have a smallish ceremony and reception, and are thinking of having it at our acreage, probably next summer. But I don't feel that we have enough friends and family to make the traditional 'dance' reception with a DJ, etc fun or successful. My fiance doesn't like the idea of a brunch wedding. Has anyone been to a wedding that didn't have a dance? Any ideas for what we can do?  
 
Thanks!  
Curly