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I was just reviewing the section here called "Womens Room" - and wonder why us women do not talk to eachother about personal relationship issues more often.  
 
My question to you is - have you ever experienced an Interloper breaking up your relationship? What do you consider "inappropriate" behavior from your partner with someone other than you . . . how do you define an "Emotional Affair"??? Is an Interloper every good for your relationship?? And what would you feel, when you learn that your partner of many years is now in a "relationship" with said "Interloper"?? . . . or said "Interloper" is pimping out your EX now to her "friends"???? How would you handle this???  
 
Lets discuss gals issues here. . . .  
 
Edited by whatthewhat, 2016-08-14 14:09:01

So if he has many friends that are girls, it would not bother me a bit. I have many guy friends, we have trust.  
 
If I found out he was in a relationship, he can get out...give me half his pension, alimony and leave.  
 
If interloper is pimping out my ex, not much I can do, he is an ex. Might hurt, might be mad, but would not do anything about it, as I said, if he is my ex., I therefore have no reason it interfere in his life, as he has no reason to interfere in mine.

I appreciate your comments/responses. You are helping me out - thank you.

Life's way too short to be unhappy, and I have lived enough and learned that being single isn't sad, being unhappy in a relationship is sad. Just saying...

BonjourBrandon said "Life's way too short to be unhappy, and I have lived enough and learned that being single isn't sad, being unhappy in a relationship is sad. Just saying... "

your words of encouragement are greatly appreciated. What makes me sad is realizing the person I thought I was in a relationship with was not who I thought he was - and in essence had a secondary life without me . . . that is what makes me sad. Thank you for your thoughts.  
 
.....and Brenda, I am not jealous either - I am actually very trusting. I was feeling neglected, taken for granted, and isolated by him ........ and I noticed he was lying to me ALOT ............ when a woman realizes this, and doesn''t like it - that does not mean she is jealous. Do not label me - thank you.  
 
Edited by whatthewhat, 2016-08-15 08:58:15

whatthewhat said "    BonjourBrandon said "Life's way too short to be unhappy, and I have lived enough and learned that being single isn't sad, being unhappy in a relationship is sad. Just saying... " your words of encouragement are greatly appreciated. What makes me sad is realizing the person I thought I was in a relationship with was not who I thought he was - and in essence had a secondary life without me . . . that is what makes me sad. Thank you for your thoughts.     .....and Brenda, I am not jealous either - I am actually very trusting. I was feeling neglected, taken for granted, and isolated by him ........ and I noticed he was lying to me ALOT ............ when a woman realizes this, and doesn''t like it - that does not mean she is jealous. Do not label me - thank you.     Edited by whatthewhat, 2016-08-15 08:58:15"

I never once said you were jealous. You asked for opinions and I said that "I" was not the jealous type.

its great to read your comments gals - thanks for the support. And you are right Weathered Heart - I feel so much better without that Emotional roller coaster ride - its just not worth it to me to even bother anymore. . . and sorry Brenda, sometimes what we print does not come across as we want it too. I apologize. I love reading your posts.

crappy relationship aren't worth it in life. Deserve better.