Consider your life values first....
9/18/2015 at 11:38 AM
Aside from the practical things (home inspections, startup costs, etc), I'd say that one of the most important things is to make sure that your life values are compatible with home ownership. If having a home takes away from the values you cherish, then you're going to quickly find yourself becoming stressed and miserable.
Life values would include things like: security, prestige, having fun, adventure, hobbies, generosity, going out, etc.
My wife and I found this out the hard way after we purchased our first home. While we found security in having a house, it significantly took away from the other values we cherished: generosity, having fun, hobbies, and adventure. The time and resources we normally would've had to put into those values were now all being diverted into the house and everything that comes with home ownership. We became stressed and miserable - not because home ownership is bad - but because we had purchased the wrong home, in the wrong price range (even though we were technically able to afford it), and for the wrong reasons.
We eventually sold our house to live overseas for 4 years (my wife values 'adventure'). We've actually just recently moved back to Brandon and purchased our second home that fits perfectly with our values and are now much, MUCH, happier.
Another thing to keep in mind: figure out your budget numbers beforehand. Make sure the numbers are clear, SPECIFIC, realistic, and (again) are compatible with your life values. Once you've figured that out, you'll know what the max amount of money you can spend is, and then stick to that number NO MATTER WHAT. Homes are popping up all the time, be patient, and eventually the right home will come up that fits into your criteria. If you need help with budgeting, Gail Vaz Oxlade (of 'Til Debt Do Us Part' fame) has awesomely excellent interactive budget template to help you with this (
http://www.gailvazoxlade.com/resources.html - be sure to read her walk through on how to set things up).
Last thing: be willing to compromise. You probably won't find perfect harmony between your values and home ownership, so be willing to compromise in favour of the the values your value more.
I know this is a tad long, but I hope that helps!
Edited by Sykes, 2015-09-18 11:47:23