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Remembering
11/11/2015 at 4:29 AM
From the time I was very young I always took an interest in people. That interest in people gave me the chance to talk to people who had been affected by war, some of them had even fought in WWI, more had fought in WWII and some in Korea, there were also talks with families that had been affected by war. Very seldom did anyone really come out and talk of the horrors of war, although at times there would be very short stories about things that happened during the fighting and the pauses after these stories sort of reflected the hurt and pain that had left it's mark on these people. The same could be said when at district events and the generation before me would reminisce of picnics and dances where so and so had put on a show or was really outstanding at a sport, and once again there would be a pause, and you realized that they were talking of someone who had not come back from war. There was the odd time where you might be talking to a person and on that day they were remembering the loss of someone close like a family member, and that was where it seemed the pain was the greatest, or maybe could be felt the most.
I will remember like I always do, I will not go to a service, I will stop work shortly before 11 and put the radio on and listen to a service that way, and during the moment of silence I will think of all the pain and suffering and death that all wars bring and then I will return to work.
Maybe time has played tricks with my memory, but when I think back to when I was young and in school, I cannot remember Nov. 11th being a holiday, I can remember the chairs being set up in the gymnasium and the service being held at 11 and the n returning to class after the noon hour, and for some reason it sticks in my mind that the world and business returned to normal after the service, except for maybe some of the vets who stay at the legion to reminisce.
Time does affect the pain and loss and even how this day is viewed, with each passing year the people who have been directly affected by war declines, and even for myself I have those memories of seeing the pain and hurt in people's faces, but that is not something that one can pass on, and maybe that is why so many people just look at it as a holiday, the heartfelt connection to the loss and pain and even the horror of war is being lost by many in the general public.
If nothing else remember these words for they are forever true "lest we forget".