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Domestic disturbance calls are mixed bags of $h!+...
7/5/2016 at 5:35 PM
Before anyone jumps on my head... I don't know the "full story", but neither does anyone else on eBrandon. However, our society is full of judgmental, critical hypocrites who squawk during any beneficial opportunity in order to take advantage and to put down others. Just look at most of these posts! Squawk. Squawk. Squawk. None of us was there, none of us know what statements were made from the parties involved and no one has seen the video. All we have is a incredibly brief statement given from the Independent Investigation Unit of Manitoba stating that "the actions of the subject office were uncalled (for) and unjustified". But concluded with "Discretion is warranted and no charges will be authorized against the subject officer". Plus, the CBC article stated recommendations were suggested from the IIU that "The Brandon Police Service may wish to determine whether further internal actions are warranted to deal with the officer's conduct". Translation: The cop was in the wrong to use excessive force and lied in his statements on how the event took place, but was not excessive enough to be criminal charged by the courts. However, it's been recommended that his superiors should continue or have additional disciplinary actions put upon that cop. So if "Joe Public" wants more answers... It's up to the public (hopefully the news media) to get an statement from the Brandon Police on what will be done or have been done to address this matter. So stop bashing the cops, people!
I've often told my kids to be anything they want for a career as long it wasn't these two things: Soldier and cop. Society never respects either profession, until after the fact. And that's so true. With soldiers, they get labeled as dumb, aggressive "meat heads" seeking benefits from our government *snark*, but get defined as "heroes" when the arrive home tired and broken. Wow, that was a quick flip. And even quicker flip happens within a year when everyone soon forgets. And cops are often classified as soulless public service enforcers of the law who are viewed by many as having a "superior complex" on demanding respect of their authority of the law. But, the public will immediately change their minds whenever the media singles out an "exceptional moment" or whenever one gets killed on duty. GOD! We're awful! We are constantly hating the police long after from whenever we knowingly break the rules and get caught. We suspect & accuse the police afterwards that they are on some kind of emotional power trip, then criticize them on everything they do and should be doing with regards to their job. Then as the topper, do a complete 180 when we actually need them or wanting them to abandon the law when it's convenient or beneficial for us. ...such hypocrites the all of us! We hold them to such high standards, scrutinize, then complain when things don't go "our way". The pressure and mistrust from both sides (the general public and the officer), makes me think that this is truly the most thankless job in the city. Always on our "beck and call" whenever someone is unhappy... it must suck to feel that the only ones they can count on, is each other.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not turning a blind eye to this officers poor actions with the aggressive restrainment and then lied about it. That mark will always be tagged to his career records and will definitely affect his future as a policeman. But cut these people some slack for going off on people like her with these $h!+ calls. And that's what is was... A $h!+ call. The classic "domestic disturbance/violence complaint", where everyone is upset, everyone has a different story and usually the only reason the cops are called is not to serve justice... but to do someones bidding out of spite. I know I couldn't handle the daily task of playing the so-called victims pawn over and over again. Someone wants immediate retaliation and vengeance put upon another, so the cops are called to hopefully do just that. And then when they don't... the victim turns on the cops with bitter verbal abuse and disrespect. Too bad the video had no audio. It would explain what "set off" this cop and what prompted him to do what he did. The article stated she was on her phone trying to leave while he was talking (lecturing) to her. Ahh yes, the typical "princess attitude" of ignoring the people she called to attention and making a huff because her expectations weren't met. I'm pretty sure we've all had those people in our lives. They expect others to do their dirty work. Get angry when we don't. Then get rude while you try to explain. How many times have we gotten miffed when the person you're talking to, pulls out a bloody phone and focuses on that instead. Or you get a childish reaction on a serious discussion when that person decides to walk away in mid conversation. Jeez, I wonder if those were the triggers? (*sarcasm*) It's such crap that so much of our police resources are wasted when dealing with such trivial complaints as non-serious domestic complaints only to have professional advise or solutions fall on deaf ears.
Maybe I just see things differently. Like, wondering why the cop went off on this chick instead of just assuming that whatever the circumstances... If the cop is proven wrong, the other person is automatically innocent of everything done prior to and during the incident. Perhaps, all parties involved should a behaved better?
Just my opinion, I could be wrong.