Joined: May 2010
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There is
2/17/2016 at 4:32 PM
something about going to a gym with fit people all around you that makes people nervous. As a male, when I was going to FQ for training, I looked around and was always second guessing why I would punish myself with all these ripped guys (and tiny little girls). It was very intimidating and disheartening, that was until I said that to my trainer and he laughed. His exact words were, "if these guys even looked at you most of them would have the utmost respect for you coming in to change your life around. It's the people that come in and do nothing they don't respect no matter what size". It was at that point where I looked up with a new set of eyes, and realized everyone in there is imperfect and the majority of them would help and encourage anyone.
Due to work I travel lots and go to many different gyms on the road and yes I still get intimidated at every gym I go to, but I put my ear phones in, put my head down and focus on myself. I remind myself I am here for myself and to be healthy for my family (so I can torture them for a long time) and if someone wants to look down on me for not being as ripped as them or still overweight have at it! We all weren't born with perfect body genes and most of the ones looking down are the ones standing there talking more then sweating. I try to find out when the gym is least busy and try to make that work (right now I go at 4:30am so I can be alone with no interruptions and focus only on myself).
Don't worry about looking bad, go for yourself and pound it out and know you are doing this for your health! Go hard and in a few months you will look back with all your new gym friends and laugh about creating a thread and will help the next heavier nervous person. It's contagious but very fun, there's lots of offers to help on this thread and I will tell you when I was at FQ there was all different shapes and sizes as with any gym (even Golds Gym in BC when I lived there was the same).