SuperheroAmongYou said "Some great points here! I grew up on a farm so I always love that country life, even if it costs more. I want to have a horse or two, I want a huge garden, I want to have no neighbours, I want clear nights sky. To be able to breath a bit, I'm sure all that live in the country or grew up on one know what I mean. What about my child? I want her to grow up with chickens and cats and dogs. Grow up with that lifestyle that I too loved so much and that made me who I am!
It sounds sooo cheesy!!! But to me it's everything.
I have thought about moving to a nearby town, and honestly that's where the house I'm looking at is, but I just don't know..... I feel like I would buy it, but still be just dreaming of my own place!
Agh.... what to do when reality doesn't match the dream.. "
I grew up in Winnipeg but spent my summers at my grandparents' farm up by Neepawa. My husband also grew up in Winnipeg.
I often talk about the farm and stuff we did there growing up, and my husband will talk about the things he did growing up. We came to realize that we actually had a lot of overlap in terms of experience in very different places.
At the farm, we had huge gardens, canned and preserved food, picked berries down the dirt road, had lots of wildlife around (they didn't keep animals, but the neighbouring pasture's fence was in poor repair, so you know... cows... ), spent all day outdoors and generally ran amuck.
My husband, in the city, also had a huge garden (they had an oversized lot in the suburbs), his mother canned and preserved food, they went berry picking, collected an assortment of animals (they had a pet squirrel at one point that lived in the house!), spent tons of time outdoors as their dad would take them canoeing and camping or they would just be outside, and generally ran amuck.
My point is, often it's about attitude! The things we really valued from our childhoods and that formed us as adults were actually very similar, but were in very different environments.
Something to ponder.