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So it seems the bf and I are having parenting issues, we just can't seem to agree on which ways to parent our new born baby! He seems to do things one way while I like them done the other and im going absolutely crazy.  
Things like feeding, changing him, letting him cry, etc. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but we have to meet somewhere. I don't feel comfortable at 3 in the morning when the baby is crying to be fed and he's letting him "cry it out" a little and to top it off he's then wanting him to try and hold the bottle himself, its upsetting.  
I don't know what i am trying to say here, maybe I just need to rant a min, but if anyone has any suggestions on how to meet in the middle or anything it would be great!  
Thanks.