Joined: Apr 2013
Posts: 132
Motivational Story Time:
5/8/2017 at 7:57 PM
Hi there,
I've been in in your situation before. I'll let you know I'm working on my Masters at this very moment.
Yes - oh yes, it hurts deep down to the core to fail something you know you worked hard on, or perhaps didn't give 100% - and you know what I mean - the mental drive, the committment, perhaps - it just wasn't the right time.
Years down the road - I look back at that time in my life and can see, it was quite possibly the best thing that could ever have happened. It helped shape me.
Did I take time off? Yes, I worked. I thought every day of how badly I wanted it. How this failure didn't commute internally with what I had heard previously from others. I laughed at myself, having already had a degree from another institution, failing one course, made me start to do the "poor me, poor poor little me" then into the angry "HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN" blah blah blah - then acceptance, "Okay, I've rode the pity train long enough - What do I have to do to, to get to what I want"...
So I made a plan.
Things to ask yourself:
1) How long do you want to ride on the pity train? Long? Short?
2) Can you submit an appeal, even if it means to redo the course? One more time. Cause you know what? The horse ain't dead - you got another flog in you yet til you beat the horse lame
3) Other poster's have suggested contacting schools - but how about contacting the school you are at, and requesting paper work for an appeal and asking for an academic plan be made
4) Look at what was going on in your life at that time, and give yourself an honest assessment - hardly don't right away, seeing as you posted this, it might still be fresh - give yourself a few days, and make a list of things that you have contributed to the failing, and life circumstances that have contributed and what you will do, to ensure this does not happen again.
Failure is beautiful. So beautiful, it really separates people. It humbles you to a core that people too scared to try, to get back up can not understand. Failure changes you.
You can only truly appreciate the failures in your life, when the rewarding moment happen.
PM me, if you require.