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Some opinions will be conflicting...
1/13/2017 at 10:31 AM
There will always be extreme opposites at either end of the spectrum of opinions. I for one, believes that ten or twenty minutes for a well dressed kid while moving about, builds character and does not harm. Letting my kids (youngest in grade three and oldest in High school) walk a block or two to school is good for them, while other parents will warm up their cars drive the same distance as ours have to do and stop on the crosswalk to drop-off/pick-up their 'little un-bundled of joy'. It irritates me, but it also does cracks me up. Minus forty these last few days and for some, neither parent or kid got a brain between them. It only proves my theory that stupidity must be genetic. Yesterday, I saw teens in their shorts and a sweat shirt getting picked up, shorts! What a proud moment it must be for a parent when picking up your athletic offspring after practice wearing the same outfit they wore in September. Yeah, they were hot in the gym, but it must feel really good to hop into the vehicle with all those windows still frosted on the inside. *sarcasm* Or another proud moment when they drop off the little angel dressed in jacket that ends halfway down their waist, no mitts or hat but in fuzzy slippers and leggings. So, I guess we can all get to see the little @$$ that's about to freeze off. LOL I know as a parent we have to pick our battles with out older kids, but seriously... This would shame me if I were seen with or known that was my kid getting in or out of the car dressed like that. ...As for the parents of the younger kids... I suppose the 'bubble wrap' does keep them warm and that makes you some kind of "super parent" (super paranoid, that is), but get over yourself. Want to be a better parent? It starts with not making lame excuses and by teaching the kid the basic skills and setting the example of dressing warm, thinking to adapt and anticipate their surroundings. Not letting them rely on Mom & Dad to provide all the solutions or worse... just having one solution. It's astonishing how these younger generations come out totally unprepared during the Canadian winter. It reminds me of the story of the young mother who wrecked her car and froze her feet while trying to keep her kid warm through the night. She was deemed a hero, but I found her incredibly stupid. Sweats, a pull-over, flip-flops, cell phone and a warm car for a twenty minute drive between towns on a winters night. Everything's good because she has her phone, right? ...Well, it wasn't. Both her and the kid was thrown from the vehicle (never understood how, if they should've been secured with belts), phone gone, cold and injured. The accident itself may have been unavoidable, but the outcome should have been ...if she were more prepared. We assure ourselves with false security like warm cars, phones and door to door trips ...but it's sooo wrong to be thinking that way. And to top it off! Some of us are conditioning their kids to think the same way by either depending on the fact that nothing can go wrong or the exact opposite. By totally wimping out and not adapting to changes. My wife had to work minus a few people these past days because co-workers felt it too cold and "drifty" to drive in from the Shilo area. Really? They chose to live there. They should have a plan for days like these. Get up earlier, pack a shovel & essentials, dress accordingly, suck it up and get your @$$ to work. And that's the same for kids going to school. Prepare them, don't pamper them. Walk with them if you're concerned. I did that. Especially if there were no crossing guards. This is such easy stuff, why must it be made so complicated when the weather gets harsh. Oh, that's right! We aren't prepared for it. So who's fault is that?
Just my opinion, I could be wrong. ...but warm.