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I've been living in a good way for years and years. Made alot of adjustments to benefit myself, and have brought focus to my own development.  
Naturally, we all think about sharing that time with someone else.  
In my mind, it's always been the goal to find the way that I live my life as the best version of myself, and when I'm doing that the one who will help me be a better version of myself will appear.  
So, that leaves me wondering. How much better of a person I can be? haha!  
Or, maybe it's something different. Maybe I'll just go on loving my life, continuing forward to bigger better things. Regardless

Better to live life without someone one , rather that be stuck with someone you don't want to live life with. It is what I teach my kids. You don't need anyone to make you whole. Wish someone would have taught me that. Would have saved me a lot of problems

I went through a lot, more than one person should. When I came out of it on the other side, I found I had bettered myself, for myself.  
 
Interesting that you used the word "better" and not "change". Change is something people do for others. Bettering is something we do for ourselves.  
 
I have noticed a markedly improved reaction to my presence, from others. Not something I had intended, more, a spin-off from what I did for myself.  
 
"Maybe I'll just go on loving my life, continuing forward to bigger better things." Absolutely and completely.