| | RichardL said "What’s is having your life together? I think I have my life together and the only problem I have is that I have some crazy baggage so to speak I notice some people already have the pre set that they will not meet anyone and that makes me sad. Why are you blocking yourself off. Then we have those who complain about not being able to find someone up to par but then completely ignore people who are up to standards. Don’t get me wrong standards are good I have mine too. None the less I’m going to singles night! Sounds fun and I could use some fun my life is incredibly hard lol can’t wait to share my story with someone! Or everyone " |
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"Having your life together"..... that means something different to everyone.
To me it means you can survive without relying on help from others, although sometimes the help is appreciated.
To a lot of women I have met/chatted with it means having your mortgage paid off, a nice car also paid off, no kids at home, cash in the bank and the ability to travel, lol.
I have been on POF for a while now, off and on: I delete my account when I do start dating someone and have noticed the same women that have been on there for years...... mayhap they expect too much in a guy.