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So I have a thing for women older than me..... I’m just wondering if anyone has advice for putting myself out there without Looking creepy or annoying. Preferably women responses. Not gentleman who need to keep opinions to themselves  
 
 
 
 
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Well it depends on a few things.. how old are you and what age range are you looking at ? Sometimes depending on the age difference it doesn’t matter how you doin it, it looks creepy. More info will get you more ideas.

I'm not sure how to advise you on where to meet older women, especially since you didn't say how old you are, but I can give you some pointers on how to make the relationship work. Are you looking for a cougar or a lasting relationship?  
 
I am 12 years older than my husband and what makes it work for us is that we are in the same phase in our lives. What I mean by that is that is that we are not into going to loud bars and partying all night. Our maturity level is about the same......mostly. lol. I should mention that we met in a chat room.  
 
I asked my husband many questions about how he would feel when I started to look my age. He was 35 at the time. His response is what convinced me that he was the right guy for me. He said " by the time your looks fade, I will already be in love with the person that you are". Then he added "don't let your hair go gray" lol.  
 
Be yourself, have a sense of humour, be kind and for the love of God, wear pants that don't hang halfway down your butt. We old school girls like to see a nice butt too.  
 
I hope that this helped a little. Good luck,

Try hitting up McDonald's on Richmond any morning between 7am and 11am for the morning coffee club.  
I've also heard the food court at the mall around the same time is good.  
Maybe try getting a job at lions manner?  
 
Good luck

His name is Whoknows81 so I am assuming he is 38. Lions manner might be a bit to old....but to each their own. Lol

How much older are you meaning.... 10 years? More? If you are in fact 38 as the above poster is suggesting are you looking for a woman in her 40’s? 50’s? I’m just wondering because maybe what you consider an age difference isn’t really that significant, especially to the woman. I’m in my late 40’s and am always being hit on by guys in their 30’s, who I have no interest in. I would like someone my age or in their 50’s and those guys never approach me.... I think they’re going after the 30 year olds, lol.

I am 38. And I’m talking about women in their mid to late 40’s and early 50’s

You want a sugar momma?

I wouldn’t say that. I can take care of myself... I just find older women much more attractive

What is it about mid 40+ that you find more attractive? Are you speaking purely physical? Where they’re at in life? Something else?

The physicality is definitely a huge part... but being more intellectual... and they want to have fun.... not just go to the bar on the weekends (no thanks). They are just s*xier plain and simple

Most of my 40ish female friends are on POF but they are set to private so just make a profile that might make them want to message you.

Not really my thing.... doesn’t seem to wrk for me

Sorry to hear that. It’s hard being middle aged and trying to find good partner. I had almost given up before I met my best friend and soul mate online many years ago.

Congrats.... that’s awesome!

A scary place lol but there’s lots of us 40s ladies out here you just need to message, smile and acknowledge when your out and about etc. A lot of mid 40 men are looking for mid 20’s lol so there’s a few of us to chose from