Verbal Abuse from Boyfriend.
6/30/2010 at 9:45 AM
Hello everyone,
I would just like to get this out and off of me. I have been with my current boy for over a 1 year, known him since I was 5 at least.
Perviuosly, I had been in one 3-year relationship where I was put down alot and felt stupid. I went into therpy for it because of alot of things. Now, I have the same things going on with my current boyfriend, but I feel more angry that he is putting me thru all this crap again since I went thru it before.
Anyways, I am currently visitng family in Ontario when someone called me to inform me that my boyfriend is kicking me out of our place. Of course I got mad at this since I paid the rent, and also signed the lease agreement. Reading up online, he has no such right to do this.
So of course I called and yelled at him to explain what was going on. He got mad at me and basically put me down, said threats ("or else i will kick you out; we are going to be over if you keep this up" etc.) and all that jazz that I know is verbal abuse.
Basically what I do is obey him and shut up and say yes to everything. I know its not right, but right now it keeps things quiet and not a full-out screaming fight match.
Gah. Ok, that is all. Thanks for reading this, I just needed it off and out there.