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The question doesn't make much sense....are you asking what the likelihood of one party dating another person while he/she is married?

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Very few people are going to answer a question like that on here. You should make a 'survey monkey' poll and post a link for people, similar to what the Business students do.

OP, maybe rephrase your post to straight forward questions you want us to answer.  
 
 

but I new to this site so how you do that option?

Google 'Survey Monkey'. It is a site that allows you to create your own survey. Then post a link.

for the edit to go through

I think everyone needs to chill. The title is pretty straight forward. Do people in marriages cheat ... Oh hell yes it happens. Does the person they are cheating with always know they are married uh, no. And to say that no one in the history of the world has gone and said I want that person regardless of marital status is very narrow minded since that's why a lot of people went to war. Just saying your attacking someone because it offends your senses of what's right. If this person is to be a marriage councillor they are going to have to deal with these problems. Maybe the op didn't go about it right but give it a break.

here, answer or don't answer is all.  
A man said his wife cheated on him but I may have did the same thing, he divorced, found a girlfriend and cheated on her until he got caught. He doesn't like be alone and looking for one to support and help with his kids.  
Some uses a person mostly for money only, love isn't really the idea it seems.  
Some couple stay together but aren't happy. All kinds of story.

Are the two things required to maintain a healthy marriage.  
 
In roughly half of the relationships, these things break down.  
It's never very simple. Once someone chooses to lie, to save  
the hurt from entering the picture, the defence mechanisms  
of stress and coping tend to make the relationship fall apart.  
 
Then, along comes the "other woman" or the "other man" who  
in many cases, are not really very nice in the first place.  
 
If the third person never comes along, that's one thing and  
there will be no cheating.  
 
So when you think about it, at the moment when an unhappy  
spouse meets a third person, there is already a big problem  
at home that has simply not been solved yet and it may be too late.  
 
What's the cure? Don't allow it to become too late to save the marriage.  
Take care of your spouse, or someone else will.  
Good marriage is mostly giving more than taking.  
Happiness is getting good return on your effort.  
Think about it.

I have married men hitting on me all the time. I would never date or sleep with a married man! Been cheated on after 21 years of marriage and I would never do it to another wife. I usually tell them to home to their wife, it is not worth cheating on. One married man said his wife lets him cheat, just don't leave her and he is over 60??? I was still not interested!