I'm also thankful that I have benefits and that I had surgery and didn't have to remortgage my house to do it.
sometimes it's easy to forget what's important and certainly Christmas is a time to reflect on what really is important.
I know having extra cash right now would be a great help but it's not the end of the world. I have decent health, family and friends and I hope anyone else reading this does too.
Without health not much else seems to matter. Merry Christmas everyone! thanks again for your replies.