| | Brenda said "I entered kindergarten at 4, as my birthday was in December. do not do it, do not push the child. I did well enough in school, it was all the social, sports aspects of maybe not being on the same team as my school friends. (I know it sounds silly but it is true, this is a child, not an adult who can adjust. We also lived in a small town and I came to ACC. So I moved out own my own at 17, to a place where I knew no one.
the worst - your friends can all get in the bar before you!~! " |
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I was the 4 year old as well in kindergarten back in the day. I did well academically, but it was in later years when everyone was passing those social teenage milestones and I was the odd one out being just too young age-wise for certain social situations. Academics are one thing, but the social aspect of friends that are peers is very much significant in the formative years. I graduated at 17.
When one of my children were met with the same fate of a birthday on the cut-off date, I held that child back and was glad I did.
I had a great upbringing and all was well in school. I just think it's not a bad thing to hold a child back and use that last year to focus on hands-on learning such as museums, culture, additional learning and just enjoying that one more year at home until they are socially ready.
Academics can always be expanded on if a child is gifted. Socially, there is no fix if they are behind their peers in age.
Just my contribution with experience, whether right or wrong.