Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 9145
i respect that you believe you should stand on your own as you are an adult, i am also not sure of your parents financial situation but if it were me I would honestly feed you so you had money to pay for other necessities, even renting out the suite you are in and moving yopu into my space if i had too
also if i were you, and i know its not totally honest, but I would NOT tell EIA about birthday money or house sitting/baby sitting jobs ect, Im not sure what the claw back rate is now but I do believe its low and you are trying to help yourself with what you can while you wait for disability
it does seem like lots who shouldnt get disability do and others who should have to fight but dont give up hopefully it will come sooner rather then latter, do also push them for help with meds
i also wonder if your car payments are in your calculations? i know you may need the car and in hind sight you should have paid the car off with the cash you had and apply for EIA sooner but you may have to sell the car and then get EIA to pay a rental, bus, or other paid service to get you to appointments
also just keep phoning and phoning everyone and anyone until you find something that will work, someone might just get sick of you bugging them and help you lol