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socialism
2/6/2020 at 9:00 AM
I always find the point of "school is for learning to socialize" a bit strange.... because truly, if you think of it, how much of the time are kids REALLY socializing? Are they allowed to talk during class? No. How many of us got into trouble for talking? Kids have 15minute recess in the morning to talk, 30 for lunch and another 15 in the afternoon. That's pretty much all the socializing they are ALLOWED to do.... so in an 8? hour day they are allowed to talk with fellow students for the combined period of 1 hour?..... that doesn't seem like a fantastic environment to socialize in ...especially when you're expected to sit quietly 80% of the time..... then we have to think, who are they learning HOW to socialize properly from? Other kids the same age, who have the same mental capacity as themselves? If you want to learn how to play piano, do you go to someone who also doesn't know how to play piano?.. no, you go to someone who has played piano for years....And if compulsory schooling was so phenomenal as raising proper, respectful, socially capable people, would we not be able to see the fruit of that around us? But really, are kids that socially advanced? I mean, think of it, if you go out and look around are we seeing a fully developed social student? Or is this the most antisocial and virtue stunted (respect for elders, proper and respectful language, etc) society we have probably every seen? Who knows how to socialize? Everyone at the staff room table isn't socializing anymore, they are on their phones. Everyone walking down the street isn't socializing anymore they are in their phones or listening to earbuds, even if they are with others.. At this point no one is really social to any degree.... at school they are supposed to be quiet, not socializing, at home they are supposed to do homework and not be too rowdy, heck, we hardly see kids outside socializing anymore at all, and then parents think that's theyve spent so much time socializing during the day (even though it was only 1 hour) they feel it's okay to stick them unfront of a phone while they are grocery shopping, or driving, or eating out, because it's not their job to teach socialism it's the schools job. And they school is saying it's "it's not our job to teach socialism it's the parents" so no one is teaching the kids because they pass the responsibility onto someone else, ... it is the most antisocial society, and the bulk of our lives are spent in school, so really, it makes no sense to say school teaches kids to be social, in fact if anything it's quite the opposite.. we are naturally social creatures and we will automatically seek social interaction, unless we are told to shut-up and sit down quietly for 13+ years of our lives. School doesn't teach socialism, it teaches you to be quiet.
Edited by SuperheroAmongYou, 2020-02-06 09:08:52