| | Happy1986 said "You guys are all being VERY RUDE. This is a friend trying to help out another friend. How is she supposed to know exactly how much her FRIEND owes. She knows that she is in a tough spot and trying to help her. The person who needs the money probably knows exactly how much she needs. She unlike you guys is trying to be a caring helpful friend. Sorry if you guys have never had any problems in your lives and the money tree is always in full bloom. Things don't always go perfectly for everyone all the time.
Try walking for a couple of days in someone else's shoes before you come on here with your holier than thou attitudes insulting someone who is just asking for help. They are not asking for a hand out but a loan that they will pay back. " |
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i certainly wasn't trying to be rude but i was trying to point the ops friend in the right direction
as for how she would know what her friend needs she directly said [i]she doesnt have a [b]amount set [/b]she will be happy if she can get caught up with her rent and she is behind 1000 dollars [/i]so yes the friend needs to figure that out so she knows how to get out of her hard times, i see an other osted excellent advice on how to figure out living expenses and what she would need and if the loan would actually help her so i wont go into that
you also assume because we give the advice straight up, unsugar coated that we have never been on hard times, while IDK about the other poster i definitely have, i have been jobless despite and with very little savings, what i have never been is stuck not knowing what i needed to do to improve my situation
just a note for the ones who like to jump on rents and landlords in Brandon, this landlord has allowed this tenant to get $1000 behind, hopefully she manages to figure something out but thats a pretty nice landlord and also why you need to charge more then what the mortgage is when you rent