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Don't be afraid to call the cops. They will break that crap up in no time.

Call your building manager and report them.

No reason to demean the man for crying. Yes maybe you overheard their fight and are upset about losing sleep.  
Maybe you feel you know what their fight was about but you really have no right to tell him to sack up considering you don't actually seem to know this person. People handle things differently and he has every right to cry without judgement from you.

I only get 4 hours of sleep quite often, no big deal.

As others have said, call the cops.  
 
As for him owing you a day's pay, if you had to miss work because you lost a few hours sleep, man up!

*hands Richardwaldner a Snickers and a coffee*  
 
I'd say "suck it up Buttercup" but then I'd be sounding like you...  
 
So I'll ask what did you do to deal with the situation besides come on eBrandon? BPS have no problems coming out to domestic calls at 3AM.  
 
Edited by hobbes, 2016-08-09 15:09:08

Richardwaldner said " To the people responsible for waking everyone up at 3am on 20th street you owe me a day's pay I got 4 hours of sleep from your shenanigans, and to the guy crying sack up that was pathetic. "

why owe you a day's pay, do not exaggerate! You did not get beat up from it and I am 100% positive a lot of people had missed some sleep few times for whatever reason.

You make fun of this guy for crying because he may have lost an important person in his life  
 
YET  
 
you call in to work crying because you only got 4 hours of sleep?  
 
Give you head a shake.

Why would they owe you a day's pay for your four hours of sleep? Unless that actually caused you to miss work, which is sad - I've worked back to back shifts with insomnia, just pound back the coffees. And it's pretty sh*tty of you to bash a guy for crying only to whine about it here.  
 
Only pathetic thing I see is you complaining on a website instead of solving the problem yourself.

Maybe try knocking on the door and asking them to take it down a notch politely? Or like others have said put in a noise complaint.  
 
There's no reason to bash someone for crying, you don't know whats going on in their life or their relationship.  
 
And if you seriously missed a day of work due to 4 hours of sleep, honestly that's the most pathetic reason ever. I've worked off of an hour and a half of sleep a few times but I'm an adult, we suck it up, drink crap loads of coffee and finish the day.

Coming from a mother of a newborn, 4 hours of sleep sounds like a dream come true. Please tell me you didn't call in "sick" because you were tired. In your words, "Sack up" and grab a coffee!

Jeebee said "Coming from a mother of a newborn, 4 hours of sleep sounds like a dream come true. Please tell me you didn't call in "sick" because you were tired. In your words, "Sack up" and grab a coffee! "

Lol...I totally get that! Yep...moms (and some dads...I won't forget you) are super fortunate if they get 2 hours of sleep straight at any time. For one of the kids, I didn't get a full nights sleep but for 5 nights in a seven year stretch. Multiply that with many kids and you are looking at an even longer stretch. Brain fog is a normal way of life.  
 
You get up the next morning and still have to go on with your day. It is called life.  
 
Richard, I have no idea what happened, but it sounds pretty traumatic for that guy. I might take the time to see if I could help (be a listening ear) the next day. Sometimes that can build a friendship or at least foster better communication between neighbors. Been there, done that (it wasn't easy to approach the subject)...and it was a late night event that triggered that at that time too. It certainly made both of us feel better.  
 
I would encourage you to do the same once you have a cool head. You never know what a positive difference you can make in someone's life.

Op has a job that needs full rest like pilot? or even transit driver.  
Some of us may have kids, but that doesn't mean op has to put up with bad neighbors.  
I always keep earplugs handy for this kind of situations.