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Is Ruffying common in Brandon bars??

Is Ruffying common in Brandon bars??

Tater
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Tater
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Is Ruffying common in Brandon bars??
6/26/2017 at 11:10 AM

Is ruffying common in Brandon bars? I'm getting the impression that it is more common than I thought now days.
Grace1956
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Grace1956
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????
6/26/2017 at 12:12 PM

What is it?
Clueless_In_BDN
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Clueless_In_BDN
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Rohypnol?
6/26/2017 at 12:23 PM

Like date rape drug? Or am I reading this wrong?
Agora
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Agora
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I think you mean
6/26/2017 at 12:35 PM

Roofie, not ruffy.
JoBeth

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JoBeth
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Had to look up Ruffying.
6/26/2017 at 12:51 PM

https://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&ved=0ahUKEwiVvtO5idzUAhWd3oMKHXoxBMQQFggmMAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.urbandictionary.com%2Ftags.php%3Ftag%3Druffying&usg=AFQjCNE2Omi5ydpqjMAWcgLelciPfSUYlQ&cad=rja
Tater
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Tater
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Yes date rape drugging
6/26/2017 at 12:56 PM

Could be rohypnol, ketamine, GHB, etc.
JessieJay
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JessieJay
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6/26/2017 at 2:21 PM

These days I would say it is foolish to leave your drink unattended or even unobserved in any bar. I know 2 different guys who got drugged-just for kicks i guess-in Brandon bats many years ago when drugging wasn't common. One was drugged with PVP. I haven't been careless with a drink since.
Facade
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Facade
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Yes
6/26/2017 at 4:47 PM

I was drugged in 2001 and nearly raped by an acquaintance's husband. I'm not sure if he did it at the bar or at their home after, but I felt groggy and couldn't move my limbs very well, they felt very heavy. Luckily my friend came into the room and saved me before he was able to do too much, but his wife (ex wife now) didn't believe me when I tried to tell her on the way out. I never told the police. I avoided him and his family's business after. I only confronted him about 5 or so years ago when he sat at my table at a Halloween social. He couldn't understand why I didn't want to talk to him or have him sitting at the same table as me. I was livid, shaking and scared all over again. But proud of myself.

Moral of the story: don't leave your drink unattended, even with acquaintances. Don't accept mixed drinks from people you don't trust
BrandonLover
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BrandonLover
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Damn
6/26/2017 at 9:40 PM

Damn, that's brutal. Sorry. Hope this isn't a trend.

Do you know if the man who did this to you had other victims? I'd have to guess he almost certainly did.
Facade
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Facade
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.
6/27/2017 at 1:57 PM

I don't know, but it definitely wouldn't be a surprise if he had. I stayed far away as possible from him and his friends after. I realize now that I should have gone to the police, that I could have potentially saved someone else from that fate, but unless he has other victims that aren't coming forward, as far as I know he is free and still works at his family's business.