"Want to look at rings?"`
7/5/2009 at 5:49 PM
Just so every one knows a bit about the situation beforehand, here's a little info: My boyfriend and i live together and I have a one year old daughter (not his but he treats her like his own), we talk about marriage and adding onto our little family all the time, but this weekend kind of left me confused... We were at the mall on saturday and he muttered "want to look at rings?" i didnt quite hear him the first time so i asked him what he said, so he asked me again... I smiled and said "maybe" (i have a playful personality and he knew that by "maybe" i meant "yes")... anyway, after that, we went for lunch then came home.... he didnt say anything else about it, just totally dropped it. When we talked about it later, he told that he wanted to "see my reaction" .... what. the. hell. So, for the past couple days its basically felt like hes ripped my heart out of my chest. So thats a bit of the story (not much AT ALL is being left out, nothing thats relevant anyway).. All I want to know is what other women in my situation would do? I just didnt really talk to him for a day and a half, kind of sucks because he left to go to BC again until the end of July and thats the only time we'd seen each other in 2 months!