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Ummmm, advise?
1/18/2010 at 2:50 PM
Ok. So I recently went on a chat site because it was 3 in the morning and I had nothing else better to do. On the chat site i met this guy. We got to talking and it eventually led to me giving him my msn.
We talked everyday. When I would come home from school he would always be there waiting for me online. Finally after like four days he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was a bit edgy about it because if the age difference (he is 30) has been married before and is now divorced. But, he convinced me to at least give him a chance and finally I said yes.
After he asked for my facebook. I told him what it was. Now he knows EVERYTHING about me.
He says he is in love with me and wants to come all the way down from Alberta to see me. I told him this was all moving too fast but he keeps saying that its ok because he loved me and I don:t have to worry about anything,
I don't mind meeting him in person, but he keeps going on about you know. Sex. I told him that I probably will not do much with him because I am still a virgin and do not feel comfortable with everything.
He keeps going on about how its ok because he "loves me" (ive only known him for a week now) and how he can't wait to be my first.
The problem is, I am sooooo scared he is going to blackmail me into telling my parents if I don't do what he wants.
I know, I made a HUGE mistake giving him all my information and I wish I could take it all back, but I can't.
My parents can't know any of this because they are deeply religious and will literally kick me out or something.
Bottom line is I am stuck.
What should I do? By the time he comes I will be 18 (17 now) and everything will be legal. But still. I want to go to university and everything and I want to be apart of my family's lives but if he tells them...well...
I need advise! Have you ever gone through something like this? Meeting someone online? And then in real life? The guy keeps on talking about how much stronger he is than me and that if I really love him I will do anything for him regardless of my parents. (I don't love him at all)
People. learn from my mistake and be smart. Use the brain cells God gave you.
Sooo again, what in the world do I do? I understand I made a mistake, I want to know how to fix it! Buuut, I want a solution that does NOT involve my parents.