Discussions

There are a number of things that have contributed to my state of mind today. However.  
 
I'd like to know the percentage of men out there that can actually deeply connect with a woman or even want to? Who also aren't hiding the fact that they would like to sleep with half the women they walk by (if they were given the opportunity and permission to do so)? How many men want to connect deeply and emotionally with one woman, working to keep that connection - not getting lazy about it after a while and feeling she is "work" - like "why can't she just roll over and have sex with me?".  
 
Ladies, have you found a man that you have connected really well with - that truly understands you and you truly understand him? - without him having to hide who is really is? That has kept this connection with you many years later - that perhaps you would call him your soul mate?  
 
Are we really supposed to be ok with the fact that our "man" would sleep with most women that walk by if you had an agreement of that sort?  
 
Not because I am looking for a man to date, I would just like to know how many truly exist in general.  
 
Do us woman expect too much out of men. Are they mere sexual creatures that would prefer to wander and carouse as they please because that's what they were meant to do. (Numerous men have told me this).  
 
Men, what do you really want? Do you need a deep emotional connection or are you really just looking for company and sex: someone to spend your spare time with?  
 
 
 
 
 
Edited by Tangled, 2011-01-10 15:14:25