Discussions

As I look around me I see my younger sister who is married and happy. Good friends who have been dating the same person for over a year and are happy. Other friends in young relationships and seem to be very happy. And here I am "still" single and thinking to myself am I missing something.  
 
We've all heard the saying you dont know until you have tried it but, I also feel comfortable with what and who I am and got there without the suport of a "significant" other (other than my family and firends).  
 
It's also not the matter that I lack the ability to talk to women. I've had friends tell me they are surprised that I can eventhough I have NEVER dated. I have always felt that some of us respectful guys are getting the short end of the stick because we are not "bad boys".