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are there relationships out there that you stay in because it's safe familiar ,secure you do not love the person & tell them you do not love them but they still want to spend time with you . I'm at that place where I could careless about being with anyone . I tell this person go find someone else Is this normal?

For some people, being alone is normal. A relationship is a lot of work and if you do not want one, then why would anyone bother putting in the time and effort?  
 
Enjoy yourself, it is often the best relationship to have.  
 
Just keep telling the person that you are busy whenever they want to spend time with you. They will soon get the message. "I need some alone time ... for a few months" is another good reply.  
 

Your certainly not the only one i've heard the same thing from... I will say the same thing as i tell them.. Life is too short to not be completely happy.. Been there done that..

Some people are into monogamy with the right person, some are into monogamy with anyone, and some are into 'placeholder' significant others, sadly.